Everyone is usually looking forward to the holidays but it hits different when you’re in a long distance relationship. There’s something about those long cold winter nights and I know you know what I mean. Between having to attend Christmas parties alone and third wheeling with your friends just to be their designated photographer, it sucks! Don’t get me started on the pity invites because everyone thinks you’re lonely. Oh, and I almost forgot the classic family set up with your childhood friend.

As stressful as the holidays might get, you don’t have to worry about being alone. If your long distance relationship has worked all year long, why should the holidays be any different? Although watching other couples kissing under the mistletoe or sharing a blanket and hot cocoa by the fireplace might sting a little, you can get through Christmas in one piece. Here are some tips:

1. Technology has allowed us to be so close to each other even though we are thousands of miles apart. Look into things like virtual dates on FaceTime, Zoom or Whatsapp. Enjoy each other’s company and talk about how you feel, it will help to make things easier for both of you.
2. Come up with fun Christmas traditions together from wherever you are. You can decide to make gingerbread cookies or decorate a Christmas tree while you’re both on a video call. Add personal touches that remind you of each other.
3. Avoid toxic family members and friends. This is harder said than done because you might not be able to fully run away from the toxic family gossip lovers. Sometimes our friends and family want to constantly rub it in our faces that your man isn’t around or they might try to insinuate that you might not actually have a man in the first place. Don’t let them get to you.
4. Indulge in family activities to distract yourself from the constant thoughts of being far away from your man. Bake, cook, do some shopping, visit loved ones – anything to keep you distracted from overthinking and feeling lonely.
5. Make plans with your partner to see each other even if it’s after the holidays. Planning a trip or a get away will give you two the chance to bond and it will give you something to look forward to after the holiday season.
6. Send each other thoughtful gifts for Christmas. Men can be oblivious to what we want so you could try giving him a gift wish list of things you like. Wondering what you can get your man for Christmas? Read our article on gift ideas to get your man this Christmas.

There is no easy way to do a long distance relationship but if you love each other, then there’s no reason for the holidays to get in between your relationship. You got this, sis. Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year lovelies!

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