It’s been a long week and you just want to unwind. You and the girls just picked out some new lingerie and you can’t wait to show it to your man. The kids have gone to grandma’s for the weekend and now it’s time to get busy.

We have all thought about adding something new to our sex life – be it sex toys or blindfolds or some other sexy moves, but sometimes we are scared. But, hey, this article is your sign to go for it. Get as kinky as you like, sis. Remember, no one is watching (unless that’s your kind of thing).

Before we get into the sex, it’s important to maximise foreplay. Get creative with it. Incorporate things like whipped cream, fruits, chocolate, and other toys. Let foreplay be foreplay. Go to town with it. Have as much fun as you want. Eat off each other’s bodies and make sure you enjoy yourself. Build your body’s anticipation for sex. Foreplay can start as early as 9:00 am in the morning by sending your man a cheeky little text like: “Hey Babe, I forgot my underwear at home so better be here to pick me up by 3. There are a few things I would like to show you.” 

Talk to your partner and see what they are ready to explore. You might actually be surprised by the sexual fantasies they might have. Be open minded and try not to compare yourself to porn that you might have watched together. Remember, most of what you see in porn is staged.

When we say kinky sex styles, everyone’s mind quickly rushes to Christian Grey or Massimo from 365. All we want is to have a good time and explore new things. I might be able to help you out with this. Here are a few kinky sex styles you can try with your man:

1. The Classic Cowgirl

This style gives you as a woman total control of the rhythm, depth and the speed of sex. You are in charge. The cowgirl position has multiple variations and it’s up to you to choose what works for you. To enjoy this, you need to be ready to explore your wild side. In this style you are basically seated on top of your man while riding him. This style is intimate and kinky because you can choose whether to be cheeky (pun intended) and face away from your partner or you are able to face your partner.

While doing the reverse cowgirl position, if you are flexible enough, you can bend backwards and touch your feet to get more pleasure. You can also add blindfolds, handcuffs, and any other toys of your choice to take it to the next level.

2. 69

The 69 position is often talked about though (from the research we have done) not a lot of people actually give it a try. In this position, you and your partner give each other oral sex at the same time while laying side by side or with you on top of your man. It’s a fun way to enjoy oral sex as both partners are able to pleasure each other at the same time. If this isn’t kinky then I don’t know what is.

3. Doggy Style

I know, you’re probably thinking who hasn’t tried that, right? Doggy style has so many variations, you will be shocked. The classic doggy style is where a woman is on her hands and knees and her partner penetrates her from behind.  This is for the more conservative people that intend to be a little daring.

4. The Wheelbarrow

Yes, that’s right, the wheelbarrow position exists. This where you get on your hands and knees and your partner carries you up by the waist. You use your hands to prop yourself up and put your legs around his waist. It’s very pleasurable and, if you missed your day at the gym, I just gave you a workout for your abs, glutes, and hands. You’re welcome.

5. The Standing Ovation

This is one of the hottest sex positions if you ask me. At least almost all the movie directors agree with me on this since we often see this sex position intimate scenes in many movies. This is where your partner carries and pins you to the wall as you straddle him. It can be done in the shower, the bedroom, and anywhere else as long as you are both comfortable.

To conclude, these are not the only sex styles you can try. The options out there are countless. In order to have the ultimate sexual experience with your partner, you could try to be more open minded to try new things. For example, try having sex in the most random places like the kitchen, shower or living room. Experimenting with different locations within your home (or outside – we’re not judging!) really does add the kinky factor.

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