The Weirdest Things That Turn Women On (Part One)

When I was in my early twenties, I started talking to a guy who I met through work. He lived in the UK so we were long distance. Let me tell you – we had so much to talk about! We’d spend over 8 hours (crazy, I know!) talking on the phone. Eventually, after about a year and a half of talking on the phone without actually meeting, he ended up coming to North America for a work event so I convinced one of my close friends to drive 6 hours with me so that we could meet up with him in the city where he had the work engagement.

The minute I saw him walking towards me, my heart sank. He just wasn’t doing it for me physically. More specifically, I didn’t like the way that this guy walked. It was a major turn off. I did end up having sex with him a few times, but I didn’t feel it. There was no physical chemistry, and I honestly was so turned off by the way he walked.

Fast forward to years later and I met another guy in my late twenties. Our initial meeting was a sit down for only about 30 minutes. It was okay and all – there was a spark between us that we both definitely felt but it wasn’t until our first outing when I saw him walking that I realized how sexually attracted to him I was. He had picked me up and, on the way to where we were going, we stopped at one of his work sites for him to check out something. That’s when I saw him walk across the lot and I can for sure say that I was turned on! His walk just exuded BDE (Big Dick Energy), ya know?!

I was listening to a TMI podcast (@tmipodcastke) episode a while ago where Murugi Munyi and Lydia K.M. were discussing the reasons that made them stop talking to a guy. Lydia mentioned that she once stopped talking to a guy when she saw him walking and I have never felt more seen! I was like – wait, it’s not just me who is either turned on or off by the way a man walks?!

I literally can get hot and bothered when I see a man stroll by with an energy and presence that I like. The way a man walks is just so damn sexy to me and makes me want to jump his bones!

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